May 23, 2023

Email from a follower about the lack of civility

I received this email:

Hey Mike,

within the political spectrum, when a person disagrees with another they are called a RINO, racist, DINO, coward, traitor or worse. Why does this happen? Why do people act so immature? And how can America go back to an era of civil discourse again?

Tired of it all

Dear Tired,

The phenomenon you're describing, where people resort to name-calling and engage in immature behavior when they disagree politically, can be attributed to several factors. Here are a few key reasons for this behavior:

  1. Polarization and Tribalism: In recent years, political discourse has become increasingly polarized, with people identifying strongly with their own political ideologies and viewing those who disagree as adversaries. This tribalistic mindset often leads to the demonization of opponents and a reluctance to engage in civil discourse.
  2. Confirmation Bias and Echo Chambers: Many individuals seek out information that confirms their preexisting beliefs, and social media algorithms often reinforce this behavior by presenting users with content that aligns with their views. This creates echo chambers, where people are isolated from opposing opinions and can develop a distorted perception of reality. As a result, when confronted with differing viewpoints, they may react defensively or resort to insults.
  3. Emotional Reactions and Cognitive Biases: Political beliefs are often deeply intertwined with individuals' values and identities. When these beliefs are challenged, it can trigger emotional responses, such as anger, fear, or defensiveness. Additionally, cognitive biases, such as the tendency to interpret information in a way that confirms existing beliefs, can further hinder constructive dialogue.

To foster a return to civil discourse in America, several approaches can be considered:

  1. Promoting Media Literacy: Educating citizens about media literacy and critical thinking can help individuals navigate the vast amount of information available and identify biased or unreliable sources. This can reduce the influence of echo chambers and encourage a more nuanced understanding of different perspectives.
  2. Encouraging Open-mindedness and Empathy: Emphasizing the value of open-mindedness and empathy can help create an environment where people are more willing to listen to opposing viewpoints and engage in constructive dialogue. Building empathy involves understanding the underlying values and concerns that shape others' perspectives.
  3. Political Leadership and Role Models: Political leaders play a crucial role in setting the tone for public discourse. Encouraging leaders who prioritize respectful dialogue, bridge-building, and compromise can have a positive influence on the overall political climate.
  4. Promoting Civil Discourse in Education: Incorporating lessons on civil discourse, critical thinking, and respectful debate into educational curricula can equip younger generations with the necessary skills to engage in constructive political discussions.
  5. Grassroots Movements and Initiatives: Grassroots movements that advocate for civil discourse, dialogue, and understanding can contribute to shifting the political culture. Encouraging local community dialogues, town halls, and respectful debates can foster more productive interactions among citizens.

It's important to acknowledge that these changes take time, and achieving a widespread return to civil discourse will require collective effort from individuals, communities, institutions, and political leaders.

Until then? Just ignore the obliviots!